Is It OK to Date Your Best Friends Ex?

Sure, your best friend may say that he or she has moved on, and in fact might have a new partner already, but you may live in a personal hell, full of guilt and inadequacy for life. Is that something you want? Would you really want to settle for (sloppy) seconds? However, if you're having a relationship with your best friend's ex because you realized that he or she really is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, then go ahead. It ultimately boils down to your happiness.

You may ask yourself "Is having a relationship with your best friend's ex worth it?" Sure, there may be a lot of reasons you can think of, but the first thing you have to make sure for yourself is, are you sure? Getting your best friend's ex requires a lot of pride swallowing with the pun-laced jokes, among others. Having a relationship with a friend's ex may involve a lot of drama, including possible comparisons between you and your best friend. Is there really a space for drama in your life right now? If yes, don't say you weren't warned before if you get second thoughts later.

Of course, you have to consider your best friend's current state. He or she might have a new squeeze already. If yes, good for you. If the ex is still available, then lady luck is on your side. Be an adult, and make sure that the past is not revisited too often and resolve to be a better person and partner. Remember: it's you who wants this date! You will have to be the one to do more of the hard and dirty work.

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