Conversation Starters for a First Date

Posted by Personals Edmonton on 2010-08-30

A good date practically rests on good conversation, and good conversation means lengthy, casual conversations with good humor and lots of sense, not just small talk. Lots of dead air, awkward silences, and long pauses usually spell boredom and are almost an assurance that there won't be a next date.

Unfortunately, not all of us is talented with the gift of gab. There are some people who find it difficult to open up, even with people they know and are comfortable with. It's not that they're bored or just not interested, but it could be because they're not too at ease with the situation. It will take some time for them to finally speak up. On the other hand, there are also people who can't stop themselves from talking about anything, even about matters that are taboos and those that shouldn't be talked about. So, if you are either an untalented conversationalist or an inappropriate blabbermouth, here are some tips and topics that you should talk about on your first date:

1. Family

Talking about brothers and sisters would be a good place to start, as talking about parents might lead to a lengthy divorce or separation discussion.

2. Travel

Travel is one topic both sexes can actually relate to. Stories of travel experiences and future travel destinations are definitely something you can share and marvel about. If one of you is not a travel bug, then the one who has a more extensive travel experience can share more about his or her trips here and abroad, while the less experienced traveler can talk about where he or she wants to go when given the chance.

3. Work

People just love taking about work, no matter how good or bad it can be. Work is always a good topic that keeps the ball rolling. There are just too many stories to share with each other such as good and bad experiences with co-workers and plenty of funny incidents that happen in the workplace.

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